Although Robina transitioned genders decades before her marriage to Patton in 2004, the Social Security Administration ruled her marriage wasn’t valid when it was entered into because “she was not legally a woman,” and so denied her request.
While the case itself is important enough to write about, what is really remarkable is the 7-1/2 minute video Lambda Legal made of Robina. This lovely portrait beautifully highlights her love of flying as well as her occupational and romantic history. She says, “I have lived a very private life, but the SSA is forcing me to speak out. I don’t want other people to have to experience this.”
Lambda Legal is representing her in her struggle with the Social Security Administration, an effort that will benefit many, many marriages involving trans people and their partners when it is — as it inevitably must be — won. In the meantime, however, Robina and Lambda Legal deserve many thanks for a really remarkable oral history. Make sure you check it out: http://www.lambdalegal.org/blog/20140129_robina-asti-92-year-old-transgender-widow